September 9, 2025
Loving Your Neighbor: Building Community God's Way
Have you ever experienced one of those perfect summer nights with friends and family gathered together, enjoying good food and conversation? Those moments remind us that we don't live life alone. We share spaces, and our lives, choices, and rhythms affect one another. This is exactly how God designed it to be.
When Jesus was asked about the greatest commandment, He didn't just say "love God." He added, "love your neighbor as yourself." This raises an important question for us today: Who is our neighbor, and how should we treat them?
Everyone Needs a Place in Community
In Deuteronomy 14:27-29, God instructs the Israelites about caring for those who might otherwise be overlooked:
"And you shall not neglect the Levite who is within your towns, for he has no portion or inheritance with you. At the end of every three years, you shall bring out all of the tithe of your produce in the same year and lay it up within your towns. And the Levite, because he has no portion or no inheritance with you, and the sojourner and the fatherless and the widow, who are within your towns, shall come and eat and be filled that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hands that you do."
God specifically mentions several groups who needed special care:
Why did God instruct the Israelites to care for these people? Because God cares about every person in community, especially those on the margins.
Who Are Our Neighbors Today?
Our neighbors aren't just the people who live next door. They include:
God has entrusted us to care for others not because we're superheroes or because we have everything figured out, but simply because we're His people.
How Does Loving Our Community Honor God?
When we love our community, we are obeying God's command. But God didn't just give us commands - He gave us His Son. Jesus entered our world, cared for the broken, healed the sick, and welcomed outsiders. The reason we can love our community is because Jesus first loved us.
This might sound elementary, but when was the last time you looked at a difficult neighbor and thought, "I need to love them because Jesus loves them"?
The Greatest Commandments
In Mark 12:29-31, Jesus answers the question about the greatest commandment:
"The most important is, 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.' The second is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these."
These commandments are inseparable. You cannot love God fully while ignoring the people He loves. That's a powerful truth we need to internalize.
What Does Loving Your Neighbor Actually Look Like?
Loving your neighbor as yourself means:
Think about your favorite local spots - the family-owned restaurants, the barbershop where they know your name. That sense of community and belonging is what we're called to create everywhere we go.
Loving our neighbor looks like everyday choices that put God's love on display. It's not optional for Christians - it's one of the clearest evidences that we truly love God.
How Can We Be a Blessing to Others?
God set up rhythms of generosity for Israel. Every third year, the tithe went to the Levites, foreigners, widows, and orphans. Why? Because blessing was never meant to stop with one person or family. Blessing is meant to flow.
In 2 Corinthians 9, Paul explains this principle: "You will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion." God provides for us so we can provide for others, and ultimately, all the glory goes to Him.
Everything we have - our time, talents, treasures, testimony, skills, relationships - is a gift from God meant to bless others. Our community should feel the goodness of God's love because His people are present there.
Being Like a Sponge
Think about a sponge. When dry, it's useless. When soaked in water, it becomes heavy and useful. But if you just leave it soaking without using it, it can become sour or moldy.
Similarly, we come to church to be filled up with God's Word and encouragement. But if we don't go out and use what we've received to love others, we're limiting what God wants to do in our lives.
The pattern should be:
Why Does This Matter?
Our faith was never meant to be private. Yes, it's personal, but never private. God placed us in our cities and neighborhoods for a purpose.
If you're wondering who your neighbor is, it's whoever God places in front of you. If you're wondering how to love them, start with what God has given you and let it flow outward.
Our community's health, hope, and future are tied to how we live out the love of God right here and right now. The world doesn't need a church that hides inside its walls. It needs people who live like Jesus, loving God with everything and loving our neighbors as ourselves.
Life Application
This week, I challenge you to:
Ask yourself these questions:
Who has God placed in my path that I might be overlooking?
What resources (time, talents, treasures) has God given me that I could share with others?
How might my community change if I truly lived out Jesus' command to love my neighbor as myself?
What's one step I can take this week to be more intentional about building community?
Remember, our community will only be transformed when all of us grasp what God commanded in both the Old and New Testaments - to love Him with everything and to love our neighbors as ourselves.