November 4, 2025
Finding Hope in Every Season: What to Do When God Feels Silent
Life has a way of putting us on hold. You call customer service, hear that familiar looped music, and wonder if anyone remembers you're waiting. That frustration of being on hold mirrors how we sometimes feel with God - praying but seeing no change, serving faithfully but seeing no fruit, wondering if He's forgotten about us. But here's the truth: just because you're waiting doesn't mean Jesus isn't working.
Why Does God Make Us Wait?
According to recent statistics, Bible sales doubled in September 2024, reaching 2.4 million copies sold. People are searching for truth in uncertain times, looking for answers when everything else feels unreliable. The Bible has been providing those answers for over 2000 years.
When we feel like we're on hold with God, it's important to remember that being on hold doesn't mean He's gone - it means He's preparing. On the other side of silence, God is arranging things for the right time. He's never late, though He's rarely early by our standards, but He's always on time.
Learning from David's Example in Psalm 26
King David understood what it meant to wait on God. In Psalm 26, he shows us three essential practices for navigating seasons of waiting.
1. Pause with Trust
David begins by saying, "Vindicate me, O Lord, for I have walked in my integrity, and I have trusted in the Lord without wavering." He wasn't pretending life was easy - he was surrounded by liars, deceit, and injustice. But instead of rushing to take control, David chose to pause in trust.
This isn't passive resignation. It's active surrender. David refused to sit among men of falsehood or get swept away with their schemes. In a world of quick reactions, David showed restraint.
Trust in Hebrew carries the sense of confidence grounded in God's unchanging faithfulness. David's security wasn't built on wishful thinking but on the character of the promise-keeping God. The same God who was faithful to Abraham and Moses had proven Himself faithful to David.
When you're at a crosswalk and press the button, you get a "wait" sign. That waiting isn't punishment - it's protection from dangers you can't see. Similarly, when God has you in a season of waiting, it's not punishment but protection.
2. Pray with Thanks
In 2 Samuel 7, we see David's response when God told him "not yet" regarding his desire to build a temple. Instead of getting frustrated, David sat before the Lord and said, "Who am I, O Lord God, and what is my house that you have brought me this far?"
David thanked God for what He had already done, even when the answer was "wait." Gratitude in waiting isn't natural - it requires supernatural power from God. It's easy to thank God after the miracle, but it takes faith to thank Him before the miracle.
A Practical Exercise for Gratitude
Try this spiritual version of a grounding technique:
Gratitude shifts your focus from what's missing to who's present. It dethrones self and enthrones God, reordering your soul in the process.
3. Press On with Hope
David's prayer continues with renewed faith: "And now, O Lord God, confirm forever the word that you have spoken." His tone shifts from reflection to conviction. He's praying God's promises back to Him.
Hope isn't optimism - it's conviction. It's trusting that if God was faithful before, He will be faithful again. In Hebrew, the word "hope" literally means a cord or line, something you hold onto that ties you to future certainty.
For Christians, that line is the resurrection of Jesus Christ. Our hope isn't rooted in the possible but anchored in the proven reality of an empty tomb.
What God Is Really Doing During the Wait
Remember the disciples after the crucifixion. For three days, heaven was silent. It looked like the story was over. But behind the silence, redemption was unfolding. When the stone rolled away, it was heaven saying, "Thank you for holding. Your miracle is ready."
God's promises don't expire. His promises on your life, your spouse's life, your children's lives - they don't have expiration dates. Even when you cannot see what's happening, you can hold onto what He has said because what He said will lead you to what you cannot see.
The Sacred Nature of Waiting
Waiting seasons are working seasons for God. No wait is wasted when God is involved. What feels like being put on hold is actually God holding you. Waiting is no longer wasted time - it's sacred time with Jesus when you have the right perspective and are trusting the right thing.
Every waiting season points us back to the cross. God Himself endured the long silence of human history - centuries of prophecy, longing, and preparation until the fullness of time had come. When Jesus waited in obedience and rose in power, He redeemed every delay with divine purpose.
Life Application
This week, instead of focusing on what you're waiting for, focus on who you're waiting with. Practice the three principles David modeled: pause with trust instead of rushing to fix things yourself, pray with thanks by listing specific ways God has been faithful, and press on with hope by remembering that His promises never expire.
Consider these questions as you navigate your own season of waiting:
What area of my life am I trying to control instead of trusting God with?
How can I shift from complaining about my circumstances to thanking God for His faithfulness?
What promises from Scripture can I hold onto when I can't see what God is doing?
How might God be protecting or preparing me through this waiting season?
Remember, if you can think of even one thing God has done for you this year, you have reason to say "thank you, Jesus." Don't hang up on God during the waiting - He hasn't left you on hold. He's holding you.